What Undas Teaches About the Fathers We Bury Twice
Undas is this weekend. Some men bury their fathers twice—in the ground and in the silence after. How to unbury his name, his stories, and your own unfinished sentences.
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Storm Season Also Tests the Men Who Stay Home
October is still inside typhoon season. The go-bag, the house check, the evacuation plan, the neighbors—storm preparation is a form of provision done in the calm weeks.
Read more →The OFW Brother Also Pays a Price in October
October begins balikbayan box season. The OFW brother pays a price no shipment covers—and the family back home owes him more than receiving his cargo.
Read more →Remember Your Dead Like a Man, Not a Tourist
Undas is a week away. Remembering your dead like a man means telling the truth about who they were, passing their names to your children, and settling grief's open accounts.
Read more →She Is Asking for a Witness, Not a Repair
Most husbands lose arguments they were never invited to win. Your wife is asking for a witness, not a repair—how to stay in the room instead of solving her out of it.
Read more →Train in the Season Nobody Claps For
The most important training happens in the off-season nobody watches. Build unseen discipline in October's quiet weeks—it's the only kind that holds under pressure.
Read more →The Check-Up You Keep Moving Is a Leadership Decision
Every man over 35 has a check-up he has rescheduled three times. Postponing it is a leadership failure—and the most boring heroic thing you can do this month.
Read more →Christmas Debt Is Decided in October
Nobody goes into Christmas debt in December—they go in during October. Set the total number, cap the gift list, and pay for the season once.
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